Childs reaction to divorced parent dating
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is EXPOSE the TRUTH about relationships that are out of balance such as where the entitlement of parents rules over everyone or where the rules in love and relationship that apply to the children (even grown children) are not the same for the children as they are for the parents.EVERYONE has a choice about continuing or discontinuing in relationship.
But I see now that when he is not there for the kids, it is because forces bigger and darker than him are at play. I would like to see you post that there is balance in all things.Signed, Hurt Mother who loves her children endlessly and doesn’t understand.”First of all, I would like to qualify that in my work here in Emerging from Broken I am not advocating or empowering grown children to rise up and abuse their parents. I am not supporting revenge on parents and I am NOT advocating or recommending that grown children go ‘no contact’ with their parents which I believe is an individual choice that each person has the right to make.You take parenting as a responsibility — not an extracurricular activity.I’m working on that attitude as both a divorced parent and a child of divorce.A recent caller to The Emma Johnson Show had a typically devastating situation: Her 11 year-old-daughter’s father would go months without seeing the girl, and instead spent all his time with his new girlfriend.
When the mom asked him why he didn’t return the daughter’s phone calls, he replied: “I don’t have anything to say.”I gave her some ideas about taking the issue to family court, and managing both the daughter’s and her own expectations (stop trying to control him – you can’t).
I’m a happier person and better mom because of all of the above.
So when your heart breaks because he stood your son up again, are enraged at his disregard for your time at yet another last-minute cancelation, or your daughter knows her dad is on vacation with the new girlfriend but says he can’t afford to see her, you are 100% entitled to be livid.
She says that she has done nothing but LOVE, validate and empower her children and the result of that was that they insulted her, told her that she is worthless and that she is a burden.
This sounds strange to me because I have never met a grown child that has walked away from a loving supportive empowering parent.
“I was reading on your FB page about a post you had written about a year ago.